Nationalism VS Separatism

I have been hearing about pan- islamic movements and redefining borders for Jammu and Kashmir for the past few days.Indians all over the country started commenting on Amarnath Land dispute.. i.e "Central govt is dividing hindus and muslims "."If india calls itself democratic it should give independence to J&K"."Govt need to find a solution for J&K as it found for Punjab"."BJP is responsible for spread for communalism across the nation and many more.............."discussions have reached to this extent that talks are rift about giving 'azadi' to J&K.It has taken a dirty rather senseless turn , according to me the question should be why should J&K be given independence for what sake.even discussing this matter is sham ...because indian army for the past so many years has sacrifised everything for protecting J&K .Does J&K has anything which will give it recognition as a country..If the topic of 'giving azadi to J&K' starts it will never end and will also cause bloodshed ..